Introduction to Stress
Stress is a situation where our mind and body believe that it has to be in the state of alert all the time. It recognizes stress as a normal situation. This results in alteration in attention, thought processes, body functions and structures (organs of our body) resulting in various physiological and psychological conditions.Stress gets
in the way of the true expression of your ideal self. Stress is also associated
with ill health, weakened immune systems, and low physical functioning.
Think back
to a stressful experience you had recently, and notice the way you reacted
physically to that situation. Chances are that your heart was beating fast,
your stomach felt knotted up, your muscles were tense. This is known as the
fight-or-flight response, and it is triggered by the fears that are activated
in stressful situations.
Once upon a
time the fight-or-flight response kept the human species alive. Today, that
same stress response is killing us physically, blocking us emotionally, hindering
us mentally, and making it difficult for many of us to move toward our goals.
Interrupting the Stress response
When we
experience stress, we are actually responding to feelings or fears of
helplessness, hopelessness, rejection, abandonment, or loss of control. If you
can interrupt your response to stress, you can habituate yourself to finding
the underlying fear that has triggered your reaction, and you can then turn
your fears into a series of positive experiences.
The next
time you feel yourself physically responding to stress, stop and tell yourself
to relax. Take a deep breath. Then take control of your response by creating an
image of the most personally desirable outcome of this stressful situation.
Focus the outcome upon yourself and upon the inner powers that you have been
cultivating throughout this program.
We already
know that thoughts are energy in motion. Think something, and it is on its way
to becoming a reality. Therefore, by focusing your thoughts upon a positive
outcome to any situation—an outcome that is centered upon your own alignment
with universal energy and shaped in the causal domain—then you will always be
able to circumvent and control stress.
Action Exercise: Transforming Core Emotions That trigger stress
A person who
causes you stress:
_____________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________
Emotions and
fears this person triggers: ______________________________________________________________
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Enter your
ideal state. Close your eyes and find your way to the causal domain. Now bring
to mind an individual whom you have trouble dealing with. Think of a time when
you experienced stress dealing with this person. Where in your body do you
notice the effects of this stress? Did you feel fear or anger? Were those
emotions triggered by helplessness? Hopelessness?
When you
know the answers to these questions, consider what positive message or
intentions this emotion can have for you. Take a deep breath, and as you
exhale, think of a more useful emotion for dealing with this type of person.
Now, from
the causal domain, create the outcome you desire, using the new response.
Mentally rehearse these new, positive responses and resources. Experience the
benefits over time, and envision these changes coming into your being in the
physical realm. Imagine yourself responding to stressful situations with these
new responses. See yourself relaxed in the same situation you envisioned
before. Create how you want to feel. See your posture relaxed, your breathing
calm.
Now take a
deep breath, and become aware of the qualities of your ideal self. Finish this
exercise with an awareness of the new choices and new responses you will carry
with you into life.
Key Points
- Stress is a common problem that affects almost all of us at some point in our lives. Learning to identify when you are under stress, what is stressing you, and different ways of coping with stress can greatly improve both your mental and physical well being.
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